Problem Gambling

It is easy to run into problems when gambling. These run the gamut from going over budget on a trip to the casino to getting yourself thousands in debt with no foreseeable way out. While the former may be experienced by a lot of players and can be attributed to poor money management, the latter indicates a serious gambling problem.

Gambling can be addiction just as devastating as alcohol or drug dependency. At its worst families can be torn apart and lives shattered due to insurmountable debt. For this reason is it pertinent for every gambler to learn to recognise the indications of addiction for themselves or others, so that action can be taken at an early stage.

The following are all signs that can indicate a problematic addiction to gambling:

• Gambling to ‘escape’ from other problems in life
• Absence from work or other commitments
• Lying to others about the amount or frequency that you gamble
• Having to borrow money from friends, family or your long-term savings to pay gambling debts
• Falling behind with payments on essentials such as the mortgage, rent or bills because the money has been used for gambling.

If you feel a loved one has a problem with gambling it is important that they know the effects that it has on you, your family or your circle of friends. Often, problem gamblers simply do not realise the negative consequences of their gambling. Never issue ultimatums. They are rarely effective and can lead to increased shame, guilt or secrecy about the gambling problem.

There are a number of excellent resources available for problem gamblers and those affected by gambling. The two most highly recommended organisations are gamcare.com and gamblersanonymous.org. They offer confidential counselling and advice to people with gambling addictions or those who want to help a loved one. A number of useful self-help sheets can be obtained from these groups as well.

If you suspect that gambling is becoming a problem for you, please do not feel guilty. Gambling addiction is quite common and can affect a large number of people. By acknowledging the issue you are on the first step to recovery.